D_Moon_

D_Moon_

Kink Convention Underviser
D_Moon_ (40, she/her, but they/them is also fine if you prefer this): a Dutch D-type, bratty sadist, cisgendered, spoonie, greyA-pansexual, fierce Mama-Bear, neurospicy, general kinky weirdo, pirate, writer, proud pagan, teacher. She has been exploring the worlds of BDSM as a sadist, fetishist, domme, (moral)hedonist and basically all around kinkster since her early twenties. Some of her specialties are fire-, ritual- impact- and sensationplay and she loves leather and latex. D_Moon_ is well experienced as (certified, BEd) teacher & coach, seasoned performer and organiser and has presented workshops at many (inter)national events for about 15 years. This kinky witch is also a trained shamanic practitioner, active pagan and ritualist who explores spirituality in- and outside of the BDSM-lifestyle. She loves working with people on rituals and ceremonies like handfasting and collaring. As a professional coach and teacher, she enjoys sharing her knowledge and helping people from all walks of life make the next step in their life or kink journey. D_Moon_ presented (amongst other events) at: Rotterdam conference, Dutch UnConference, Hungarian BDSM conference, Rome BDSM conference, KWIK, Squirt du Soleil, OSL meetings, VSSM meetings, online for Sadovarius and Pragmatically Kinking and a lot of in person (smaller) events and (semi)private classes. She is founding (co-)organizer of the Haarlemse munch, playparties BoobyBash & BootyBash and the Wicked WomXn workshoplounge. You can find a more extensive resumé in this Fetlife writing https://fetlife.com/users/5244022/posts/5397428. Feel free to contact her by PM on Fetlife or email to d.moonloki@gmail.com for questions.

Mindplay (101)

“Det starter alt sammen i hovedet…”

Træd ind i en verden af forhøjede følelser, intens psykologisk udforskning og samtykkende manipulation. Sammen vil vi dykke ned i de komplekse riger af mentale spil, afsløre magten ved ord, fornemmelser, gestikulationer, kropssprog og endda stilhed i en BDSM-kontekst.

Denne interaktive workshop vil give dig adskillige værktøjer og teknikker til at integrere tankeleg i din dynamik eller scener. Målet er at lære dig færdigheder og give inspiration, som du kan eksperimentere med og tilpasse til dine behov. Uanset om det handler om et relativt lille leg for at sætte stemningen, mere intrikate “planer” for at forstærke fornemmelser eller følelser, eller meget intense scener, der leger med (irrationelle) frygter og (hemmelige) ønsker, begær eller skam. Vi berører også emner som rollespil, straf/belønning, skjult leg, humor og mange flere.

Så interessante og sjove mentale spil kan være, er de ikke uden risiko og kan udløse dybe følelser hos alle involverede parter. Desuden kan mentale spil og manipulation også bruges til ikke-samtykkende, skadelige og misbrugende praksisser. Derfor lægger vi stor vægt på, hvordan man skaber og opretholder et sikrere rum, hvorfra du kan bygge dine samtykkende tankelegsoplevelser. Dette inkluderer forhandling, efterpleje, bevidsthed om traumer/udløsere, sikkerhedsord, røde flag, at sige NEJ, selvpleje og førstehjælpspraksis for mental sundhed. Dette er IKKE et hypnosekursus!

Erfarings niveau for deltagere: Ingen

Hvad skal du medbringe: Ingenting

English

“It all starts in the head…”
Step into a world of (heightened) emotions, intense (sensual) psychological exploration and
consensual manipulation.
We’ll delve into the intricate realms of mental games together, uncovering the power of words,
sensations, gestures, body language and even silence in a BDSM setting.
This interactive workshop will provide you with several tools and techniques to incorporate
mindplay within your dynamic or scenes.
The goal is to teach you skills and give inspiration that which can experiment with and adapt to fit
your needs. Whether this is a relatively small play for setting the mood, more intricate “schemes” to
heighten sensations or emotion or very intense scenes playing with (irrational) fears and (secret)
wishes, desires or shame. We also touch subjects regarding roleplay, punishment/reward, hidden
play, humour and many more.
However interesting and fun, mindgames are not without risk and can trigger deep feelings in all
parties involved. Also: mental games and manipulation can also be used be for non-consensual,
harmful and abusive practices. That is why we pay a lot of attention on how to create and maintain a
safe(r) space from which you can build your consensual mindplay experiences. This includes
negotiation, aftercare, trauma/trigger awareness, safewording, red flags, saying NO, selfcare and
(mental health) first aid practices. This is NOT a hypnosis class!

Requirements for participants: Ingen

What to bring: Nothing